tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-48175197407282948672024-03-13T09:10:35.111+08:00Life is Elated, Live life to the fullest!Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-1157782610455128902014-02-08T18:39:00.000+08:002014-02-08T18:41:21.778+08:00aku kembali utk sekian lamanya.. poyo gile tajuk aku ni.<h2>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Dah 2 tahun tinggalkan blog ni.. bukan setakat bersawang tp aku rase dh jd usang.. klu umah mesti dah ade penghuni makhluk Allah halus tu.. hehehe.</span></h4>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">xtau kenape tetiba arini tergerak hati nk jenguk balik blog usang ni. mungkin pasni leh gunakan blog ni sebagai medium aku kembangkan biz aku yg bru bermula tahun ni. oh ye aku dah strt buat biz craft aksesori wanita dan door gift utk wedding.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">dah jem otak. baru je tulis xsmpai satu page dah xtau nk celoteh ape lagi kt blog usang ni. dah le xde follower. syok sendiri aku ni. hahaha.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">btw skang ni aku dah xkeje kt gerik yg org selalu ckp hutan, hulu bagai tu. skang ni aku dah keje kt area bandar skit. tp byk giler cina kat sini. KAMPAR. sape yg penah smpai sini tau la keadaan sini mcm mane. tp aku okay je keje sini. eh aku bukan tukar keje cuma kne transfer. xtau la kenape kene transfer. sbb xperform kot. tp aku fikir +ve je la. aku kne trnsfer sbb aku insan terpilih. hehehe.. ye ;a kan, kat gerik dulu aku jadi ketua cawangan tp kat kampar ni aku dilantik jadi penyelaras or ade yg anggil pengurus. masih jabatan yg sama cuma berbeza pengendalian keje. aku happy keje kt sini. aku dapat kembangkan otak skit dan mendalami core biz jabatan aku. sbb kt sini keje lebih kepada pemulihan. tp aku sengsara skit kat sini sbb xde pegawai yg keje. aku sorg je pegawai kat sini. so semua bnde pun kene buat. operasi ke pemulihan ke, siasatan ke, pencegahan ke, ceramah ke, mahkamah ke semua aku sapu. klu aku xsapu sape lagi nk sapu. klu xsapu aku yg kne sapu ngn pengarah nnti. hahaha.. dah mula merepek dah aku..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">aku rase cukup la kot smpai sini. nnt bile tergerak hati nk bukak aku bukak balik. xtau la esok ke, lusa ke, thn depan ke, 2 tahun lagi ke.. tp harap2 aku akan istiqomah la dlm blog ni.. hehehe..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">sampai sini je... nnt aku akan citer keadaan aku selama 2 tahun yg lepas. byk bnde yg aku nk share kt blog ni. selama ni share kt fb ngn twitter tambah plak dah wujud instagram tu lagi la.. semua aku share kt sane.. bak kata yuna " dlm setiap gambar ade cerita" hahahaha. ini semua poyo!!.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">adios!! sampai kite jumpe lagi..</span></div>
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Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0Kampar, Perak, Malaysia4.311012 101.151871900000064.057653 100.82914840000007 4.5643709999999995 101.47459540000006tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-25619275155598223532011-01-26T10:49:00.002+08:002011-01-26T10:52:29.177+08:00new header<div align="center">aku xpandai sgt nk buat header ni, </div><div align="center"><br /></div><div align="center">so bile bosan2 dok kat opis ni aku edit la skit2 yang aku download kat tenet.</div><div align="center"><br /></div><div align="center">tambah ape pun skit jer.. here my new header!</div><div align="center"><br /></div><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNxFTV6nyvm9BgFWagnk_ZHF_Oq-2Y_FJFkSf9P6AEIVkmml_FB9E_wLCBSE64NyQKhgD11LV2hsCHpK8qyf057WfJxrg3LJ9pXKbfKwVJK4cByaOnAj8Ijy0tJsZTTI1X1ycqqpwKB7Ua/s1600/new-banner.gif"><img style="WIDTH: 320px; HEIGHT: 69px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5566321670775675314" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNxFTV6nyvm9BgFWagnk_ZHF_Oq-2Y_FJFkSf9P6AEIVkmml_FB9E_wLCBSE64NyQKhgD11LV2hsCHpK8qyf057WfJxrg3LJ9pXKbfKwVJK4cByaOnAj8Ijy0tJsZTTI1X1ycqqpwKB7Ua/s320/new-banner.gif" /></a></div><br /><div align="center">Less Than Perfect Life of Bliss</div><div align="center">~Life is ELATED~</div><div align="center">## Live Life to The Fullest##</div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-78524144975238490932011-01-24T12:32:00.005+08:002011-01-24T14:48:35.572+08:0014 Tips TARIK Suami ke RanjangAssalamualaikum dan Salam sejahtera semuaaaa..<br />Entri harini iz nk kongsi skit berkaitan dengan Tips tarikan suami ke ranjang yang Iz dapat semasa buat Blog walking dari satu saudara ni di myspace die <a href="http://www.myspace.com/arzex/blog">(Dr Kaez).</a><br />kepada anda semue layannzzzzz<br /><br /><br />1) Tarik perhatian suami dengan melakukan teknik yang berbeza dan mendebarkan. Sebagai contoh dengan membuka pakaian secara perlahan-lahan, bermula dengan butang paling atas dengan aksi yang menghairahkan, hehe I like!<br /><br />2) Cuba rapatkan dada anda ke dada suami dan dakaplah suami anda dengan dakapan penuh nafsu dah memberahikan. Jangan lupe senyum selebar mungkin. Yelah, senyum tu kan satu sedekah!<br /><br />3) Mainkan rambut anda ditubuhnya. Belaian rambut anda mungkin dapat membangkit ghairah suami. Jangan lupa belai juga rambut, misai atau bulu dada suami anda jika ada, kalau tak der, belailah kaki, hidung or telinga dia. Tapi kalau tu pun takder...takd dapek den nak nolong eh!<br /><br />4) Buat gigitan manja di leher atau bahagian lain tubuh. Gigitan ini boleh merangsang keinginan suami. Selain itu, suami akan ingat anda apabila melihat bekas gigitan itu tapi janganlah buat gigitan tu sebesar kuali lak. Mampus nak menjawab kat kengkawan lak!<br /><br />5) Isteri juga boleh meninggalkan pakaian dalam di tempat tidur kerana suami sering ghairah apabila melihat benda-benda itu. Kalau bule pakaian dalam yang belum dibasuh agar baunya menyerbakkan lagi suana!<br /><br />6) Tatap mata suami dengan pandangan yang mempesonakan dan mengiurkan sambil jelir-jelir lidah hehehe grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrammm nyer! Rasa nak gigit jer lidah tu hik2!<br /><br />7) Usap bahagian tubuh suami anda dengan usapan manja dan mesra dengan menggunakan hujung jari, dari dahi hingga ke belakang leher. Jangan lupe jerit..Besarrrrrrrrrr punyeeeeeeeeee! hahaha tapi kalau kecik jer..buat-buatlah tak perasan bisik jer dalam hati..alahaiiiiiiiiiiiiii!<br /><br />8 ) Hembus nafas anda ke telinga suami kerana hembusan boleh merangsang suami dan membuat dia tidak sabar mendakap anda. Omputih kata buat 'kerja-kerja meniup' hehehe 'Blow Job' hahaha cam tiup belon tu..bagi kembang!<br /><br />9) Elak menyentuh kelemahan tubuh suami. Tumpukan pada bahagian lain seperti dada, puting atau lengannya yang sasa. Kalau dia ada 6pek tu..usap-usaplah kat situ..tapi kalau tak ada, abaikan. Usap jer pewot boroi dia tu, bayangkan lah tu 6pek hik3.<br /><br />10) Sesekali pakailah pakaian dalam yang jarang dan menampakkan tubuh anda yang seksi atau memakai pakaian yang singkat dan menggiurkan. Tapi kalau tak pakai apa-apa pun boleh kan. Lebih menyenangkan kerja suami, tak gitu Senah?<br /><br />11) Selepas mandi atau sebelum mengadakan hubungan seksual, pakai pakaian di hadapan suami. Ada lelaki yang suka melihat isteri memakai pakaian satu persatu hehehe ala-ala live show kat Bangkok! Motif kan, Bangkok!<br /><br />12) Ketika hendak mengadakan hubungan seksual, pasanglah alunan lagu yang syahdu atau klasik, janganlak pasang lagu-lagu rakyat cam 'Enjit-enjit semut, Air pasang dalam or Kenek-kenek Udang'. Selain tu haruman ditubuh juga boleh membangkitkan ghairah suami. Cuba menggunakan minyak wangi yang boleh menyeronokkan suami bukan minyak wangi yang buleh menjolok hidung suami.<br /><br />13) Usah terburu-buru dalam hubungan seksual. Tau nak cepat jer..belum apa-apa dah game! Ambil masa dan nikmatilah sepuas-puasnya. All night long baby! Terokailah setiap inci tubuhnya dengan cermat dan berhati-hati.<br /><br />14) Jika ingin lebih agresif. Tarik suami ke katil dan bertindak dahulu bagi memberikan suami suatu kejutan yang berbeza. You know what I mean!<br /><br />Selamat mencuba hik3 o yeah! o yeah!<br /><br /><p align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9KswdHIkzPhmK-IWfhKSGYM0XRhyphenhypheniTYjxkGbiCdY-h_kiPCv_yJ1CSXYFVb8_eBw6JUmQxBa9QrSGMT9udQbHDnrPaT7M409Rxp8z2K7UxCV6AnOMIfOpWSKD4_a9UlgFW1J40lzLEhay/s1600/happy+couple.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 284px; HEIGHT: 177px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5565639517232396626" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9KswdHIkzPhmK-IWfhKSGYM0XRhyphenhypheniTYjxkGbiCdY-h_kiPCv_yJ1CSXYFVb8_eBw6JUmQxBa9QrSGMT9udQbHDnrPaT7M409Rxp8z2K7UxCV6AnOMIfOpWSKD4_a9UlgFW1J40lzLEhay/s320/happy+couple.jpg" /></a></p><p align="center"><em>~sekadar gambar hiasan jer..</em></p>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-68507930321473786142011-01-22T08:28:00.006+08:002011-01-22T09:21:58.637+08:00Harapkan Pagar, Pagar Makan Padi.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmhonBrd9om9bdvwAgqQnqGYki8OoiE-tyWWgUzShRE4O_TGfu6ksqsGGFpnkSStBlmVb9f6ihhexonokuUYKZQg6iBvupFWkeMQePeJI9aoSJLc529xc2YU3wleiFGPmXCRCIz4NN4i1S/s1600/Cuffed+005.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 205px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmhonBrd9om9bdvwAgqQnqGYki8OoiE-tyWWgUzShRE4O_TGfu6ksqsGGFpnkSStBlmVb9f6ihhexonokuUYKZQg6iBvupFWkeMQePeJI9aoSJLc529xc2YU3wleiFGPmXCRCIz4NN4i1S/s320/Cuffed+005.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564814243530533730" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqry5gR6Ppyi2ZXH9yzd8L9Av25Gal37WSb3FheSWT3Kas1inghsD01_0-KH0pCMK277GiTVDf1YpdxFxBQj008t95PUu4DDq3JFEHZQFyrxDRdL9bg-bZhr9PJoUMuWFpsadSWdcZ3CC2/s1600/Cuffed+005.jpg"></a><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><br /></span></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">B</span></b>agaikan tidak percaya bila sahabat mengkhianati sahabat. entri aku kali ini yang sekian lama aku tinggalkan blog yang bukan setakat berhabuk, bersawang tapi dah macam kitab lama yang terpinggir dibiarkan tanpa peduli. ecehhh.. bermadah lak.. ~~hik hik hik. berkisahkan seorang sahabat yang sgt rapat tp mempunyai sifat yang tidak disenangi iaitu <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><b><i>MENCURI.</i></b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">H</span></b>arapkan pagar, pagar makan padi, kawan makan kawan, musuh dalam selimut, gunting dalam lipatan dan mana2 peribahasa atau perumpamaan yang seangkatan dengannya, itulah yang boleh aku gambarkan terhadap seorang sahabat, teman, karib, kawan yang sorang ni.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">K</span></b>isah bermula apabila seorang sahabat aku yang dikenali bernama biarlah aku namakan sebagai 'M' sahaja. kehilangan duit sebanyak 3 kali. Pada kali pertama sebanyak RM800. yang kedua bukan setakat duit tapi HP yang xberapa mahal pun leh hilang. Yang ketiga sebanyak RM153. klu dilihat pada jumlah keseluruhan xde la banyak pun tp kami kawan2 amat terkilan bila dapat tau yang menjadi pencuri adalah sahabat kami sendiri, walhal sahabat itu merupakan teman paling akrab 'M'.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">P</span></b>ada mulanya 'M' tidak mengesyaki kawan2 yang selalu bersama, sebelum itu biar aku cerita keadaan sebenar, 'M' memiliki sebuah perniagaan butik pengantin yang diusahakan sendiri. Butik 'M' la tempat kami melepak setiap hari, untuk bergossip sambil makan2, ( bukan mengumpat :P )boleh dikatakan setiap hari kami semua dinner bersama. Aku pula selalu ke Butik 'M' sebab aku sendiri ada buat free lance utk kad kawen, banner, bunting etc. (design je la tu pun kadang bagi member buat :P ). ok berbalik pada cerita asal, selepas kejadian mencuri berulang sebanyak 3kali 'M' jadi tidak puas hati, yang peliknya hanya barang dan duit 'M' seorang je yang hilang sedangkan kami selalu ada bersama 'M', nak kata 'M' show off duit or barang2 die x la pulak, kawan2 yang lain pun berduit gak (bkn beruang yer. :P). kejadian mencuri tu berlaku apabila kami semua bersama 'melepak' itu yang membuatkan kami semua rase pelik dan menimbulkan mcm2 syak wasangka, biasa la Melayu@manusia kam tak sikit sebanyak terfikir gak tentang perkara2 yang membabitkan ilmu2 yang hitam tuh. Pada mulanya kami fikir mungkin ada orang yang nk sabotaj 'M'. Almaklumlah perniagaan 'M' boleh dikatakan maju walaupun tak sampai setahun memulakan perniagaan. Akhirnya kesabaran 'M' Memuncak untuk mengetahui siapa yang menjadi dalang sebenar, kebetulan salah seoran dari kami ada menceritkan tentang kejadian ini pada maknya. Maknya mencadangkan untuk pergi kepada seorang yang berilmu tentang perkara2 yang berkaitan ilmu alam ghaib ni. (bukan bomoh yer, khurafat tuh) pada mulanya aku sendiri kurang setuju sebab aku takut terpesong akidah. (baiklah sgt aku ni kannn ;P), setelah berbincang kami sepakat bersetuju untuk pergi berjumpa dengan seorang orang tua ni ymg dikenali dengan panggilan 'wak jo'. kebetulan sahabat yang dikatan tu xde sbb balik ke kampung.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">S</span></b>etelah tiba dirumah Wak Jo, 'M' menceritakan dari A-Z. lalu Wak Jo bertanya mahu dilakukan bagaimana, kami berbincang dan mencapai kata sepakat supaya orang yang berkenaan memulangkan semula barang dan duit yag telah 'diambil' dan memohon maaf kepada kami secara amnya dan khususnya kepada 'M'. Dan kami juga bersepakat tidak menyakiti orang tersebut. Apabila Wak Jo bagi '<i>hint' </i>orang mencuri tu mcm mana, kami semua amatlah terkejut dan serasakan bagaikan tidak percaya!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">S</span></b>ekembalinya kami dari orumah wak jo, kami semua mendiamkan diri, ye lah sapa yang nk percaya klu yang membuat onar adalah sahabat sendiri dan meliha dari rupa, profession langsung tidak menggambarkan ciri2 seorang pencuri. hurmmmm. Akhirnya kami berbincang antara kami dan mencapai satu kata putus yang membuatkan aku rasa bangga dan bertuah mempunyai sahabat2 seperti mereka, kami sepakat untuk melupakan kejadian dan tidak akan memutuskan silaturrahim yang terbina antara kami dan dia. cuma 'M' sendiri ingin bertanya kenapa dia sanggup melakukan perkara tersebut kepada 'M' sedangkan 'M' banyak membantu dia.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><b>A</b></span>pa yang ingin aku katakan, aku sendiri sgt2 tidak percaya dan tidak dapat memikir kenapa sahabat yang seorang ni tega melakukan hal sedemikian terhadap sahabat yang boleh dianggap sebagai saudara sendiri. Padaku persahabatan yang terbina antara kami tidak terjejas sedikit pun walaupun perkara begini berlaku. Aku bangga kerana menjadi sebahagian dari persahabatan ini. Terima kasih Ya Tuhan Rabul Alamin.</div><div><br /></div><div>p/s : betul kata orang sahabat lebih penting dari kekasih. (jgn salah faham kekasih pun pentin gak tapi dalam keadaan yang tertentulah. ;P)</div><div><br /></div><div><i>Busana Teratak Kasih</i></div><div><i>9:12:37 AM</i></div><div><i>22/01/2011.</i></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-50578869645206841532010-09-22T20:43:00.002+08:002010-09-22T20:50:49.782+08:00C!nTa 0h C!nTa<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwzE-YbKyRw7_zmm5PMOxs3_pgg22osz1RNzsEU6oWHs-oSEaV4UtznoONcZOIw-33mhiiPJrW5omvxXG8DXJpeI6tij_yIiR6x8y_Hn22oKxp_siPhY3b-ECmtL4LSzHRYEPflddIKwuT/s1600/tumblr_l2xpehNXlg1qaxibr.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 244px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwzE-YbKyRw7_zmm5PMOxs3_pgg22osz1RNzsEU6oWHs-oSEaV4UtznoONcZOIw-33mhiiPJrW5omvxXG8DXJpeI6tij_yIiR6x8y_Hn22oKxp_siPhY3b-ECmtL4LSzHRYEPflddIKwuT/s320/tumblr_l2xpehNXlg1qaxibr.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519719380290244482" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 13px; font-size:medium;"><br /></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 13px; font-family:Verdana;font-size:11px;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:medium;">Banyaknya pengertian cinta bagi orang-orang yang melalui detik-detik cinta. Dalam suka ada duka, dalam bahagia ada derita. Kesetiaan mengikat segala makna pengorbanan. Sanggup berkorban apa sahaja untuk orang-orang yang dicintai. Andai tak mampu berkorban seperti yang seharusnya, adakah bermakna cinta itu sudah tiada dan berkurangan? Atau adakah hanya sekadar dugaan untuk mengikat kesetiaan dan cuba saling memahami dan menghormati hak diri insan-insan yang mencintai dan dicintai?</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Cinta bermula dari rasa suka. Bila hati rasa gembira dan berbunga riang tatkala menggambarkan segala yang disukai. Dari rasa suka terrdetik rasa kesenangan dan ketenangan setiap mengenangkan segala yang disukai. Seakan masa pun berhenti bergerak agar ketenangan itu tidak berakhir terlalu cepat. Mimpi indah di malam hari. Menginginkan mimpi jadi kenyataan, rasa rindu mula bercambah. Harapan mula menggunung. Mengharapkan pengakhiran yang terbaik dan membahagiakan. Itukah cinta?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Sampai ketikanya, cinta bukanlah sekadar segala kesenangan dan mimpi-mimpi indah. Cinta menuntut pengertian sebuah pengorbanan. Dalam payah berkorban jiwa dan perasaan. Bukan untuk dihargai tetapi memadailah yang dicintai bahagia. Pada akhirnya pengorbanan itu bisa membuahkan bahagia tak terucap. Acap kali berkorban sehingga kesetiaan bersemi tanpa disedari.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Lantas cinta itu apa. Puas dirobek segala makna erti kasih sayang. Rupanya belum cukup merindui dan dirindui. Cinta bukanlah sedalam mana perasaan sayang yang dipunyai pada awalnya tetapi sehingga bila perasaan itu mampu bertahan. Beratnya pekerjaan cinta kerana amanah dan perjanjian hati yang terpikul memerlukan keperibadian yang teguh. Akhirnya mengapakah begitu mudah sekali melafazkan cinta. Bukankah cinta itu satu keputusan hati?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Aku terima kamu seadanya</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div></span>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-89070511684053532512010-09-16T00:19:00.003+08:002010-09-16T00:25:40.664+08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggkHMsJvnS21kVhyphenhyphenSGDnDZdFyFQnHNJERbF_Ebh4VFdX5Vtdu99XhaIpGs2LXF2WshANbyW3Wlhhdw9u-xpFCSg1jdyVdGNVVM2ug2knzLjsSGTvajPKXS5QP0CwdcehdRPkm_TlXpJoUT/s1600/raya+copy.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggkHMsJvnS21kVhyphenhyphenSGDnDZdFyFQnHNJERbF_Ebh4VFdX5Vtdu99XhaIpGs2LXF2WshANbyW3Wlhhdw9u-xpFCSg1jdyVdGNVVM2ug2knzLjsSGTvajPKXS5QP0CwdcehdRPkm_TlXpJoUT/s320/raya+copy.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5517175711356439346" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#990000;">EIDUKUM MUBARAK!!</span></span></span></div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-82304383522176960662010-01-14T00:01:00.002+08:002010-01-14T00:06:07.911+08:00Already GONE<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRHj4JkQV3MIfEiYffcGvn-PF5AyN3wqz2idTBpmPaIBPeHJs-qBRJOaQInp167TH3A8pZb38q-jQZZxroZaAtx5uTViu-V5zCfESpzvRQXy29n0kmocuRfkw_WXsLzoIzRXbECWiGLES4/s1600-h/850f96b4-4dfa-4657-909f-c025e05be79a.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRHj4JkQV3MIfEiYffcGvn-PF5AyN3wqz2idTBpmPaIBPeHJs-qBRJOaQInp167TH3A8pZb38q-jQZZxroZaAtx5uTViu-V5zCfESpzvRQXy29n0kmocuRfkw_WXsLzoIzRXbECWiGLES4/s320/850f96b4-4dfa-4657-909f-c025e05be79a.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5426256231357290690" /></a><br />Remember all the things we wanted<br />Now all our memories, they're haunted<br />We were always meant to say goodbye<br />Even without fists held high, yeah<br />Never would have worked out right, yeah<br />We were never meant for do or die<br /><br />I didn't want us to burn out<br />I didn't come here to hurt you now<br />I can't stop<br /><br />I want you to know<br />That it doesn't matter<br />Where we take this road<br />Someone's gotta go<br />And I want you to know<br />You couldn't have loved me better<br />But I want you to move on<br />So I'm already gone<br /><br />Looking at you makes it harder<br />But I know that you'll find another<br />That doesn't always make you wanna cry<br />Started with a perfect kiss<br />Then we could feel the poison set in<br />Perfect couldn't keep this love alive<br /><br />You know that I love you so<br />I love you enough to let you go<br /><br />I want you to know<br />That it doesn't matter<br />Where we take this road<br />Someone's gotta go<br />And I want you to know<br />You couldn't have loved me better<br />But I want you to move on<br />So I'm already gone<br /><br />I'm already gone<br />I'm already gone<br />You can't make it feel right<br />When you know that it's wrong<br />I'm already gone<br />Already gone<br />There's no moving on<br />So I'm already gone<br /><br />Already gone<br />Already gone<br />Already gone, Oooo, oh<br />Already gone<br />Already gone<br />Already gone, yeah<br /><br />Remember all the things we wanted<br />Now all our memories, they're haunted<br />We were always meant to say goodbye<br /><br />I want you to know<br />That it doesn't matter<br />Where we take this road<br />Someone's gotta go<br />And I want you to know<br />You couldn't have loved me better<br />But I want you to move on<br />So I'm already gone<br /><br />I'm already gone<br />I'm already gone<br />You can't make it feel right<br />When you know that it's wrong<br />I'm already gone<br />Already gone<br />There's no moving on<br />So I'm already gone...Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-76527421049827575692010-01-01T23:49:00.002+08:002010-01-01T23:50:48.525+08:00CINTA LAGI<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUCf1b5mDg2EaJoENVqwyu2Bh_odZMyES89OR3Vt-m2V2G_rRvX_dAaQ_ranrqw6XdhVI_g0AR0m7PCWmPg0Zz-rWP8Lalkssnk0iX21ApUf5a8VL7sAvoIKEu0mwkD-kH8w1yWP1C9RjD/s1600-h/639b5f89aceab7c2.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 130px; height: 89px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUCf1b5mDg2EaJoENVqwyu2Bh_odZMyES89OR3Vt-m2V2G_rRvX_dAaQ_ranrqw6XdhVI_g0AR0m7PCWmPg0Zz-rWP8Lalkssnk0iX21ApUf5a8VL7sAvoIKEu0mwkD-kH8w1yWP1C9RjD/s320/639b5f89aceab7c2.jpeg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421799260335233938" /></a><br />Pengertian cinta bagi setiap insan pasti berbeza. Tiada yang akan sama 100% walaupun untuk kembar seiras. Cinta…. betapa indahnya perkataan ini. Cinta boleh membuatkan kita gila… Gila dari segi negatif dan gila dari segi postif. Anda tertanya-tanya wujudkah gila positif? Bukankah semua gila itu gila negatif? Gila yang membinasakan?Tapi kenyataannya gila positif itu wujud… <br /><br />Raja yang membina Taj Mahal untuk kekasihnya itu dikategorikan orang gila negatif… gila cinta sehingga sanggup membunuh arkitek dan pekerja yang membina Taj Mahal demi untuk memastikan senibina Taj Mahal tidak ditiru. Di zamannya dia gila negatif kerana sanggup membunuh tetapi kini kerana kegilaannya India mempunyai salah satu keajaiban dunia.<br /><br />Cinta ada banyak kategori. Tapi kita biasanya cenderung membicarakan tentang cinta antara kekasih. Suami isteri pun masih kekasih, berkasih diatas asas yang sah. Adakah cinta yang lain tidak penting? Tidak… bukan begitu tapi ya..cinta antara kekasih adalah cinta di ranking teratas di dunia ini. Remaja, dewasa dan orang berumur malah kanak-kanak semuanya tahu tentang cinta yang satu ini. Definisi cinta ini sebenarnya tidak dapat ditulis dengan kata-kata. Tidak ada definisi yang tepat rasanya untuk menjelaskan apakah itu CINTA. Perasaan yang tersimpan jauh di lubuk sanubari kita itu adalah CINTA yang kita sendiri gagal untuk mendefiniskannya. Tapi kita tahu bila perasaan itu timbul kita merasakan cinta.<br /><br />"Lelaki ini yang selalu menyintaimu..selalu..tanpa ragu" [Botak in memories]Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-57877262626761232112009-12-10T23:22:00.003+08:002009-12-10T23:48:28.672+08:00CINTA<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIk7c1tlCe19bwxUX1BY5oxh_meb-UCye4A_OgvFsk0rN9zZ28ho7Ues7WXjuOfCYI1hvE1tzMaO2PddQNoeev2ChzJAq-gg3JrKPDUcyX0Mn5zZE8UPLD5PYqTnrPj_Tjj0zhzBi2FEl-/s1600-h/1237387749_8c7fc3b3a1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIk7c1tlCe19bwxUX1BY5oxh_meb-UCye4A_OgvFsk0rN9zZ28ho7Ues7WXjuOfCYI1hvE1tzMaO2PddQNoeev2ChzJAq-gg3JrKPDUcyX0Mn5zZE8UPLD5PYqTnrPj_Tjj0zhzBi2FEl-/s320/1237387749_8c7fc3b3a1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5413634147227627330" /></a><br />Kata dian ADA APA DENGAN CINTA?<br /><br />CINTA ITU INDAH<br />apabila ianya mekar semekar mawar merah yang membara seperti di dalam hati sang pencinta yg cintanya terbalas.<br /><br />CINTA BUTA<br />Kata orang cinta itu buta, benarkah?<br />mungkin benar kerana prosanya sahaja sudah membikin hati gundah gelisah tidak keruan di tambah lagi dengan perasaan rindu yang menebal di dalam hati sehinggakan ada yang berkata sesak bagaikan mahu pecah dada. BENARKAH?<br /><br />CINTA ITU ANUGERAH<br />Ya cinta itu anugerah pada yang merasainya tp pada yang tidak merasainya bagaimana? tipu jika ada manusia yang tidak pernah merasai cinta cuma mungkin berbeda rasa cintanya, cinta pada teman, cinta pada kekasih, cinta pada tuhan, cinta pada ibu bapa, cinta pada keluarga, cinta pada haiwan, cinta pada semua yang di cintai..<br /><br />CINTA ITU KETAWA DAN AIRMATA<br />ketika hangat pastinya bahagia dan hari-hari pastinya ketawa riang kerana kehadiran cinta, tetapi sesekali akan mengalir airmata, mungkin kerana memendam cinta, memendam rindu teramat dalam yang hanya diri dan tuhan sahaja yang tahu atau di belakangi cinta?<br /><br />CINTA ITU PENYERI<br />penyeri jika ianya benar-benar cinta, ketika cinta bersinar pasti akan berseri tanpa perlu di tunjuk-tunjuk pasti akan terbit serinya itu tanpa di suruh kerna hati tidak berbohong, apa saja yang terbisik dihati pasti akan terbit di wajah tanpa perlu di paksa. semua pastinya mengerti.<br /><br />CINTA ITU PEMISAH<br />apabila cinta tidak lagi berseri, bersinar, membara pasti akan menjadi pemisah kepada sesuatu perhubungan, mungkin ada yang tidak tetapi sedikit sebanyak pasti menjadi pemisah. <br /><br />Yang pasti hanya Kita insan yang di beri keistimewaan berakal yang tahu menghargai cinta tanpa perlu di suruh, di paksa.<br />hanya kita yang bisa memberi erti cinta dan hanya kita yang boleh berikan jawapan ADA APA DENGAN CINTA!<br /><br />-JePP-<br />Home sweet Home<br />10 Disember 2009<br />1138pm.Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-90379708029434803632009-10-25T21:19:00.001+08:002009-10-25T21:21:11.801+08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ42UHoCJYUqKVbfw17bRVcg-XP7w1PSESy8P0-bqxmYmLXmnxEwUi2KMck978QnsHV0o3E77y6FjOFann0qF77fogGMNa6Dt5The7wn7uOeeOfF6GbGo1lsD8uO21ZGWb1oslk8ndzV3N/s1600-h/heart_comment_graphic_02.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 304px; height: 304px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ42UHoCJYUqKVbfw17bRVcg-XP7w1PSESy8P0-bqxmYmLXmnxEwUi2KMck978QnsHV0o3E77y6FjOFann0qF77fogGMNa6Dt5The7wn7uOeeOfF6GbGo1lsD8uO21ZGWb1oslk8ndzV3N/s320/heart_comment_graphic_02.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5396526820833515794" /></a><br /><br />Malam yang mendamaikan ini aku termenung sendirian di kamarku, merenung kerlipan bintang-bintang di langit yang bertaburan seolah-olah melambai-lambai kepadaku. Indahnya ciptaan Tuhan bisik hatiku. <br /><br />Malam yang dingin tanpa aircond yang terpasang cukup membuat perasaanku rindu padanya. Angin sepoi-sepoi bahasa Banjaran Titiwangsa, sepertinya faham perasaan rinduku. Ingin ku bisikan pada angin untuk menyampaikan salamku kepadanya dan akan ku kabarkan pada bulan betapa cintaku milik dia seorang.<br /><br />Kedengaran tiupan sexophone Dave Coz mengalunkan lagu "If only for one night" dari corong mini-hifiku membuat malamku resah. Gelisah terbayangkan wajahnya yang comel itu. Mindaku jauh melayang tanpa haluan. Buku yang kupegang ku letakkan di atas meja. Malas pula untuk aku membacanya. Di saat-saat ini, alangkah seronoknya sekiranya dia ada disisiku. Di atas Vono empuk bersamaku. Akan ku usap dan belai rambutnya, ku peluk manja dirinya, ku kucup bibirnya dan melihat terus dalam hatinya melalui matanya. Akan aku bisikan kata-kata cinta ditelinganya...tentu dia tersenyum gembira.<br /><br />Aku tahu, tiada cinta yang lebih agung selain dari cinta kepada Yang Maha Kuasa. Namun cinta sesama manusia sangat penting kerana cinta mengisi kekosongan hati. Aku berdoa dan berharapkan agar ketulusan dan kasih sayang yang terjalin di antara diriku dan dia tiada siapa yang dapat menghalangnya. Sayang, akan ku cintai dirimu seadanya dan seiklasnya selagi nafasku tiada berhenti. Aku sayang kamu!<br /><br />Tuhan memberikan kita dua kaki untuk berjalan, dua tangan untuk memegang, dua telinga untuk mendengar dan dua mata untuk melihat. Tetapi mengapa Tuhan hanya menganugerahkan sekeping hati pada kita ? Karena Tuhan telah memberikan sekeping lagi hati pada seseorang untuk kita mencarinya. Itulah Cinta ...<br /><br />-JePP-<br />Home Sweet Home<br />21:20<br />25 october 2009Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-27642497032639607162009-10-25T20:34:00.005+08:002009-10-25T21:10:57.928+08:00HatiKetika dan saat diri ini telah dimiliki, kau hadir ke dalam hati untuk cuba mengisi hati yang telah di isi dengan kasih sayang dan cinta. Dugaan apakah ini apabila kau hadir untuk mencuba nasib untuk mengisi hati yg telah menjadi milik seseorang yang bergelar kekasih. Namun kau tidak jemu dalam memenangi apa yang di hajati walaupun kau tahu hati yang kau hajati ini telah mempunyai Pemiliknya.<div>Ku tak mampu menepis dugaan yang hadir, dalam kenaifan diri aku tewas menjaga hati dan perasaan yg sepatutnya, namun ku akui hati ini masih mempunyai pemiliknya lalu ku cuba melawan segala yang melanda, akhirnya ku bertekad di dalan hati apa yang terjadi semuanya ketentuan ILAHI dan ku takkan berpaling, Namun dalam pada ku menggenggam tekad ku hati berbisik dengan apa yang ada dalam diri.</div><div>Ku akui hati masih tidak akan berpaling tetapi ingatan tetap terpahat dengan keikhlasan dirimu, lalu ku cuba kuat untuk menyatakan segalanya padamu. ku tempuh segala macam dugaan dalam mempertahankan nekadku dan kau?</div><div>Kau terlalu baik untuk diriku, kau cukup kuat dalam mengharungi perasaan itu, aku? aku bagaikan terkesima di dalam dilema. mungkin takdir telah menyatakan bahawa aku tidak layak buat dirimu. Dengan rasa penuh rendah diri aku ku mohon padamu untuk tidak meneruskan niat hatimu, niat hatimu terlalu suci. akhirnya kau menerima dengan hati terbuka bahawa sesungguhnya kita akan bersama tetapi bukan sebagai pasangan kekasih. dan kini kita telah menjadi sahabat yang melebihi sahabat tetapi tidak melebihi dari pasangan yang berkasih. perkataan apakah yang sesuai untuk mencerminkan atau menceritakan tentang hubungan itu??</div><div>aku buntu, yang pasti aku dan kau yang tahu.</div><div>kepada 'kau' yang terlalu istimewa buatku hanya satu yang ku mahu ajukan..</div><div>Jika di suatu ketika nanti diriku telah dibiarkan lemas, tenggelam dan ditinggalkan di dalam dunia yang hanya kita yang tahu ini, Apakah kau akan menarik tanganku kembali berdiri bersama semua yang ada dan berada di sisimu?</div><div>Apakah aku mementingkan diri memasang strategi untuk terus berada di dalam dunia itu??</div><div>yang pasti kenangan itu tidak akan pernah luput dr ingatanku.</div><div><br /></div><div>-JePP-</div><div>Home sweet home</div><div>KDN, Grik.</div><div>25 october 2009</div><div>20:56</div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-28995006311278509572009-06-27T01:41:00.003+08:002009-06-27T01:57:39.407+08:00Untuk kesekian kalinya...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF5XhY_OwESFmARWX6WYjUgLdLYbrOHlwxRl3TQgqueaJyCX0dPDOWS9QfJpiLXkRK1Fl7RDDH3zhRC3vTWDToFof5Frarmfi_ZB1_s7sESd91wCypv4HYnGEZgOakIwPetM-Jk2hK_bmi/s1600-h/99941a28caed6822.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 145px; height: 97px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF5XhY_OwESFmARWX6WYjUgLdLYbrOHlwxRl3TQgqueaJyCX0dPDOWS9QfJpiLXkRK1Fl7RDDH3zhRC3vTWDToFof5Frarmfi_ZB1_s7sESd91wCypv4HYnGEZgOakIwPetM-Jk2hK_bmi/s320/99941a28caed6822.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351696959178179698" /></a><br /><div><br /></div>Setelah berfikir, muhasabah diri keputusan telah di bulatkan NEKAD! aku tidak akan mudah utk menerima sesiapa lagi dalam hidup ini. Biarlah takdir TUHAN yang menentukannya. Untuk menerima sesuatu yang baru mungkin susah tapi setelah ianya di terima kenapa perlu banyak halangan dan dugaan, hati di permainkan sewenangnya, tidak adakah sekelumit perikemanusiaan di hati mereka? Kenapa perlu mempermainkan hati ini setelah semuanya terang dan nyata?<div>terkenang di saat diri di lingkungi dan dilimpahi Kasih, Sayang dan CINTA yang tidak berbelah bahagi. Betapa diri ini merasakan paling bertuah hidup di dunia yang penuh dengan kekusutan. Tapi sekarang tidak, rasa itu telah dibawa pergi bersama dirinya utk selamanya. Yang tinggal hanyalah kenangan yang tak mungkin berulang. kerana sekali cinta aku tetap cinta.</div><div><br /></div><div>-JePP-</div><div>Home sweet Home</div><div>0154am</div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-77754651409852265492009-06-24T22:06:00.003+08:002009-06-24T22:26:55.074+08:00AKUKAH YANG BERSALAH?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhW6wPKaHnNbEzTa1VuOi8zTN2fUUycbbMqJC91Tu0RGMpxVripCT83gt7tK0wvpnhoVlGwz95r80AvpAPrBwDJiSOTJnBDmi79YhkN3cL2shFK-yPqq7La3XTzYRWCLkmllXcdS9gvwGHz/s1600-h/2259707131_dbca5ecc00.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhW6wPKaHnNbEzTa1VuOi8zTN2fUUycbbMqJC91Tu0RGMpxVripCT83gt7tK0wvpnhoVlGwz95r80AvpAPrBwDJiSOTJnBDmi79YhkN3cL2shFK-yPqq7La3XTzYRWCLkmllXcdS9gvwGHz/s320/2259707131_dbca5ecc00.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350900463084043746" /></a><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Malam ini mood yg baik tidak menyebelahi diri ini. kepenatan bekerja luar hari ini merupakan satu faktor penyebab <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">tension</span>, tp ada sesuatu yang membuatkan hati terdetik sehingga terbitnya rasa <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">tension.</span> kenapa di saat pintu hati dibuka ada sahaja halangan. Dugaan begini tidak mampu ku tanggung, aku berusaha sebaik mungkin utk membahagiakan hati sendiri dan hati insan yang mula memberi nyawa kembali pada hati ini yang sekian lama mati sejak di tinggalkan selamanya. kenapa perlu ungkapkan perkara yang belum pasti? kenapa tidak berterus terang? adakah aku yang bersalah? kesetiaan aku di persoal malah aku di kecam sebagai insan yang tidak boleh di percayai! apa yang aku lakukan?! berterus terang adalah jalan terbaik untuk menyelesaikan apa jua masalah. Jika ini satu permainan mu, hentikan! jangan kerana kau tidak mampu utk menyemai rasa kasih, sayang, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">CINTA</span> bersamaku jangan jadikan aku penyebabnya! <br /></div><div>Aku cuba memahami dirimu sedalam mungkin, aku cuba untuk memberi ruang sebesar mungkin agar jalinan ini tersemai dengan indah yang kemudiannya menjadi satu ikatan <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">ABADI</span> yang mana di agungkan oleh semua insan yang mempunyai hati dan perasaan, tapi apa yang aku lakukan semuanya di salah erti, aku cuba untuk berterus terang tapi tidak berguna, aku tidak diberi peluang.</div><div>Aku cuma ingin kau mengerti bahawa dalam diri ini sudah terbit rasa kasih, sayang dan <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">CINTA</span> untuk dirimu dan aku inginkannya berpanjangan dan tumbuh mekar selamanya.</div><div>SALAHKAH AKU?!</div><div><br /></div><div>-JePP-</div><div>Home Sweet Home</div><div>2221pm</div><div><br /></div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-21861590381752824732009-06-23T20:43:00.006+08:002009-06-23T21:38:54.202+08:00KENANGAN MENGUSIK KALBU<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcI2KXufN5OHYefD7Snv-QWEi6mT-1rHyvX8kh9b2cecrn_w0PHj6uW45TDf96Vtg2J2myKuY8FOMBhSJbyK40N2zg-OfSrWUOu4wcfxR3WY10k4xVPoy5r-NLsKEeiA4ereSbpYLWpgkp/s1600-h/3040_1084054263157_1280392614_30403785_749216_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcI2KXufN5OHYefD7Snv-QWEi6mT-1rHyvX8kh9b2cecrn_w0PHj6uW45TDf96Vtg2J2myKuY8FOMBhSJbyK40N2zg-OfSrWUOu4wcfxR3WY10k4xVPoy5r-NLsKEeiA4ereSbpYLWpgkp/s320/3040_1084054263157_1280392614_30403785_749216_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350510414440040354" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Tetiber waktu2 mcm ni teringat lak kenangan indah bersama sidia.. diam xdiam da lebih setahun aku di tinggalkan sidia buat selamanya.. 8 tahun bersama tetiber di pisahkan tanpa kehendak diri masing-masing, di pisahkan oleh dua alam yg berbeza, satu persatu kenangan indah yg telah di ukir bersama menjelma, bermula dr awal perkenalan, mengenali hati budi, memulakan bibit-bibit kasih sayang, menganyam cinta dan kasih bersama, membina ikatan yg bahagia, mencipta sebuah ikatan kasih, sayang, cinta hinggalah ke detik yg semua insan di dunia tidak ingin melaluinya walaupun memang hukum alam telah meletakkan syaratnya. walau apapun aku terima dengan Redha ketentuan ILAHI, takdir telah di tentukan aku tidak bersamanya lagi.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">Tapi ketika dan saat ini, aku masih rasakan kehangatan kasih, sayang dan cinta yg telah di hulurkan xprnah luntur malah semakin kuat utk meneruskan hidup tanpa si dia di sisi. Hidup mesti di teruskan. yang pergi takkan kembali, yang masih bernyawa perlu meneruskan hidup, semua itu dugaan yg di berikan oleh yang MAHA KUASA. Dengan dugaan itu membuatkan aku lebih tabah menjalani kehidupan seharian.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">Setelah setahun leb ih ditinggalkan pergi, bkan tidak terlintas di hati utk mencari pengganti tapi perasaan Kasih, Sayang dan CINTA masih utuh di hati, untuk mencari pengganti mungkin tidak tetapi jika untuk duduk setaraf di hati mungkin YA. setelah semua itu di lalui hati menjadi takut utk menerima kasih, sayang dan CINTA dari yang lain, takut? ya takut kerana perasan itu akan melenyapkan semua kenangan terindah yang telah di cipta. persoalannya, adakah insan yg bakal singgah di hati boleh menerima aku yang masih melihat kenangan silam yg indah? siapa yang sanggup bila melihat orang yang disayangi memikirkan orang lain walaupun orang itu sudah tidak wujud di dunia ini? Aku PASRAH dalam ketentuan ILAHI.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">sekarang, telahku bukakan Hati ini utk sesiapa yg mampu menakluki hati ini seperti dirinya, bukan bermaksud untuk membandingkan antara dia dan yang bakal singgah di hati tapi hati meronta untuk mendapat setaraf atau mungkin lebih.. NO BODY PERFECT!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">Percayalah sayang aku tidak pernah menduakan kasihmu, kau tetap bertakhta di hati walau apapun yang terjadi. sehingga kini malam-malamku ditemani oleh mu. tanpa sedikit pun kurang. percayalah sayang! satu sahaja yang kau perlu tahu I MISS U SO MUCH!! </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">OMG, berikan aku kekuatan dalam meneruskan kehidupan ini tanpa dirinya disisiku lagi...</span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_J9aUPaNEI">HANYA KAU YANG MAMPU</a></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">-JePP-</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">Home Sweet Home,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">2238pm</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-65500061161718789462009-06-22T00:13:00.002+08:002009-06-22T00:19:10.180+08:00Learn to LOVE againWhen you love someone and the relationship ends it hurts. And if a relationship ends suddenly, or if you were betrayed in some way, it can seem as if you'll never be able to love again.<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Too much of a risk?</span><br /><br />People often say that learning to trust again is getting over the feeling that if you get too close then love will be snatched away again.<br /><br />To love we have to give of ourselves and that can feel like taking a big risk.<br /><br />But not loving means a life without intimacy so which is the bigger risk?<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">You can love again</span><div><br />You can love again and the beauty of love is that you love people in different ways and you love different things about them.<br /><br />It's a wonderful feeling when you realize you've fallen in love again and memories of the old love can still be special but they no longer prevent you from finding new happiness.<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Your special gift</span><br /><br />When you love someone you give them a special gift. What people choose to do with your gift is down to them. Part of a new relationship is working out how worthy your new partner is to receive your 'special gift'. Of course this means relaxing and allowing the time for the relationship to progress and develop.</div><div><br /></div><div>-JePP-</div><div>Home Sweet Home</div><div>1218am</div>Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-80697640981757381462008-09-10T00:38:00.000+08:002008-09-10T00:39:44.357+08:00BERIKAN AKU KESEMPATANTuhan<br />Bila masih ku diberi kesempatan,<br />Izinkan aku untuk menCINTAInya,<br />Namun bila waktu ku telah habis dengannya,<br />Biarkan CINTA ini,<br />Hidup untuk Sekali ini sahaja...<br /><br />-JePP-<br />Grik,KDN.MYJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-59752080452491165862008-09-07T23:22:00.001+08:002008-09-07T23:24:17.513+08:00How to fast healthily during RamadanHow to fast healthily during Ramadan<br /><br />With the month of Ramadan upon us it is useful to look at ways of trying to maintain a healthy diet whilst fasting. Fasting for 12 to 24 hours or more can lead to dizziness and fatigue and a lowering of metabolic rate as a means of conserving calories or energy. Here are some simple guidelines to make sure that your diet remains balanced and healthy during this fasting period:<br /><br />Don't skip breakfast (Suhoor) <br />Even though sleep may seem far more appealing than waking up to force down some food, don't skip breakfast. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Research has shown that breakfast provides the essential energy and nutrients needed for concentration, while keeping hunger symptoms like headaches, fatigue, drowsiness and restlessness at bay. In addition, it speeds our metabolic rates. It is therefore vital to ensure an adequate intake at breakfast time.<br /><br />Eat a wide variety of foods <br />When your daily intake is limited to two meals per day, you need to put extra effort into including foods from all the food groups. Our bodies need at least 40 different nutrients daily, to ensure that we grow properly and maintain good health. Although most foods contain more than one nutrient, no single food provides all the necessary nutrients. Moreover, foods have benefits that can't be replicated by a pill. So it is important to eat a wide variety of foods every day, to ensure that we get all of these nutrients. Select foods each day from each of the five food groups:<br /><br />· Breads, cereals and other grain products<br /><br />· Fruit and vegetables<br /><br />· Meat, fish and poultry<br /><br />· Milk, cheese and yoghurt<br /><br />· Fats and sugars (these are low in nutrients & high in calories, so limit intake!)<br /><br />Eat low glycaemic (GI) foods at breakfast to help control blood sugar levels <br />Carbohydrates are classified according to their glucose response or glyceamic index (GI). The GI measures how fast the carbohydrate of a particular food is converted to glucose and enters the bloodstream. The lower the GI, the slower the food is converted to sugar and the longer it satisfies your hunger. Selecting low GI foods helps maintain normal blood sugar, minimises hunger pangs & satisfies appetite without providing excess calories. Also, by controlling blood sugar levels, you prevent excessive eating binges as a result of low blood sugar levels. Remember to include low GI foods at each meal, and to avoid eating high GI foods on their own, but rather to mix them with low GI foods, which will give an intermediate GI overall.<br /><br />Be aware of your cooking methods <br />By making small changes in your cooking habits, you can create great-tasting foods that are also healthy for you. Many of those treasured family-favourite recipes have a very high fat content for today's health-conscious living. Don't give up on your favourites – just convert them! Here's how:<br /><br />· Always trim off excess fat from before cooking, or use venison, chicken and soya as lower fat options. Remove poultry skin & choose light meat (eg. breast).<br /><br />· Cut down on fat intake during cooking:<br /><br />- cook onions in a little water or vegetable stock rather than oil or butter<br /><br />- use non-stick frying pans & non-stick sprays rather than oil or margarine<br /><br />- bake, grill or roast foods rather than frying<br /><br />- cook roasted meat or poultry on a wire rack so that the fat can drip off<br /><br />- Steam or boil vegetables<br /><br />- when preparing rice, noodles & other grains, season with herbs, spices & broths rather than added fat<br /><br />- prepare soups, gravies & sauces in advance, so that they can be refrigerated, allowing you to remove the layer of fat that forms on top.<br /><br />- Use herbs and spices to add flavour & zest to low-fat cooking. Basil, bay leaf, oregano, & rosemary add distinctive flavours & colours to meat & vegetables. Spices, like cinnamon, ginger & nutmeg enhance the sweet taste of foods, & seasoning blends, such as chilli powder, curry powder provide a complex array of flavours<br /><br />· Avoid taking in too much salt<br /><br />- Use garlic, dry mustard, pepper, onions, mushrooms & tomatoes to add flavour to meat and vegetables <br />- Add sliced lemon or lemon juice to white meats & fish<br /><br />· Make healthy changes to recipes <br />Cut the fat in half - if a recipe requires cream or whole milk, use evaporated or fresh skim milk. If a recipe requires a whole egg, use two egg whites, etc.<br /><br />Eat enough carbohydrate foods - especially those rich in fibre <br />These foods provide the body with energy. They are rich in B vitamins, and are an excellent source of fibre. Hi-fibre foods also fill you up more than low-fibre counterparts. Foods high in fibre include brown rice, wholegrains, fresh fruit and raw veggies.<br /><br />Remember your fruits and vegetables <br />Fruit and vegetables add colour and variety to the menu. They are "protective" foods as they help the body fight off sickness and disease. They are also rich sources of a variety of vitamins, minerals, and fibre, and are low in calories.<br /><br />Drink sufficient fluid <br />Always include water in your diet, and cut down on caffeine-containing beverages. Caffeine is a diuretic and will not provide adequate hydration.<br /><br />We all know that maintaining a balanced diet by eating healthily has a vital influence on your well being. Try following the above principles so that this fast period does not sway too much from the principles of good nutrition.<br /><br /> <br /><br />-JePP-<br />Grik, KDN.MYJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-10858811546896788582008-09-06T16:00:00.001+08:002008-09-06T16:03:47.675+08:00Life and relationshipI thought about you today, and for the first time it wasn't about the past, or the lies, it wasn't about the hurt, or the tears, it wasn't about my broken heart or what I used to wish the future would be. It was about the end to all that, and the beginning of a friendship. So, I don't know why people say love never ends in friendship because mine for you has. Life may lead me to new and different paths, meet new friends, learn new things ... but this will remain true - wherever life takes me, I'll always remember the path where I met you.<br /><br />The path of a relationship with true love is like a trip together down an old dirt path in the woods - sometimes it'll be beautiful and easy, other times it will be a rough walk with its ups and downs, turns and twists. But when you think you're out of the woods and you look back, you are glad the journey took place, and in all, you are glad you and your special someone took it together. But the journey is not over, you have only just begun. So, don't loose faith; keep on walking. If your love is true, the path you two take will never end. It's not so much that we're afraid of change, or so in love with the old ways, but it's that place in between that we fear. It's like being between trapezes; it's Linus when his blanket is in the dryer ... there's nothing to hold on to.<br /><br />It's not enough to have a dream, unless you're willing to pursue it. It's not enough to know what's right, unless you're strong enough to do it. It's not enough to learn the truth, unless you also learn to live it. It's not enough to reach for love, unless you care enough to give it. Men who are resolved to find a way for themselves will always find opportunities enough; and if they do not find them, they will make them. Some things are not meant to last, they just take a place in your heart and make you smarter the next time ....Learn life's biggest lessons: love, forget and forgive.<br /><br />In your darkest hour, never worry that there is no hope for the future. The most extraordinary thing about this life is that YOU are the author of your own destiny, and you get to decide what's in the next chapter...Cheers!<br /><br />-JePP-<br />KDN.MYJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-31120339304239891942008-08-23T19:32:00.000+08:002008-08-23T19:33:29.285+08:00Doa Buat SahabatAssalammualaikum w.b.t ....... ......... ......<br /><br />Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha<br />Mengasihani<br /><br />Ya Allah ...<br />Panjangkanlah umur sahabatku. Kurniakanlah kesihatan<br />yang baik padanya,<br />terangi hatinya dengan nur pancaran iman. Tetapkanlah<br />hatinya,<br />perluaskanlah rezekinya, dekatkanlah hatinya kepada<br />kebaikan,<br />jauhkanlah hatinya pada kejahatan, tunaikanlah<br />hajatnya baik hajat dalam agama,dunia dan akhirat<br />.....<br /><br /><br />Ya Muhaimin ...<br />Jika dia jatuh hati izinkanlah dia menyentuh hati<br />seseorang yang hatinya tertaut pada-Mu agar tidak<br />terjatuh dia dalam jurang cinta nafsu ....<br />Jagalah hatinya agar tidak berpaling daripada<br />melabuhkan hatinya pada hati-Mu. Jika dia rindu,<br />rindukanlah dia pada seseorang yang merindui<br />syahid di jalan-Mu.<br /><br /><br />Ya Allah ...<br />Jangan biarkan sahabatku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam<br />perjalanan panjang<br />menyeru manusia kejalan-Mu.. jika kau halalkan aku<br />merindui sahabatku,<br />janganlah aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan daku<br />pada cinta hakiki,<br />rindu abadi dan kasih sejati hanya untuk-Mu.<br /><br /><br />Ya Allah ...<br />kurniakanlah sahabatku kesenangan, ketenangan,<br />kecemerlangan dan hidayah dari-Mu dalam menempuh<br />cabaran serta liku-liku hidup di dunia dan di akhirat<br />kelak ... insya-Allah<br /><br />AMIN<br /><br />-Jepp-<br />Grik-KDN.MyJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-50869186755777852212008-07-25T17:30:00.003+08:002008-07-25T17:36:22.306+08:00DATING TIPS FOR MENLet’s face it, dates usually do not go as planned. Generally women go on a date with certain expectations of what we want to do, where we want to go, and most importantly what kind of a man we want. This is where dating tips for men can come in handy. Unfortunately you can’t control very many aspects of your date, but you can charm her with your character. These dating tips for men can help you evaluate what your weaknesses are, so you start working on any character turn-offs that you may have.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Lacking Confidence/ Insecure</span><br />Women are drawn to confident men. We want a leader and protector. If you lack confidence or are insecure about yourself, take some time to think about why. While you’re at it, think about all the positive qualities you have. Start building your confidence.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Lacking Goals/ No Ambition</span><br />The ultimate goal of dating for a woman is to find her perfect match and marry him. You will not get a second date if you are lazy or lack ambition. She wants a provider, a go getter, a man she can be proud of. Make some goals for yourself. What are you striving to achieve? Where do you want to be in 1, 5, and 10 years? These will make for great conversation on your date. Open up a little and let her know some of the things you are passionate about.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Too Serious/ Lacking Humor</span><br />Enjoy the night. Be lighthearted. Have fun. Most girls do not want a joker, but being too serious can really put a damper on the evening. Smile, laugh, tease a little. Don’t take your self too seriously. It will be intimidating and make for an intense and strained date. If she enjoys your company, she’ll want to spend more time together. Start charming her with your smile.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Negative</span><br />Negativity is not fun. Maybe your excuse is “I’m just being realistic”. Whatever your reason, she is not looking for a negative man. Chances are she has enough problems without you pointing out the negative side of everything else. There is always something positive in a negative situation. Try thinking differently for a change. Remember what your mother taught you, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” My suggestion is, think of something nice to say.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Smothering</span><br />Keep your independence. She wants to be pursued, not stalked. Remember she had a whole life of her own before you. Give her some space to do what she does and be who she is. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you are always right there, you’ll never give her a chance to miss you or think about you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Self Pity</span><br />Poor, poor you. Are you 10 or 37. It’s time to put on your big boy shoes and grow up. If you really have issues hire a shrink, do not unload on your date. Either way, whatever it is, you need to get a ladder and get over it. Shit happens to everyone. Deal with it and move on. Women want a strong, confident man who can deal with issues.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Arrogant</span><br />So you thing you’re pretty cool huh. On the positive side, at least one of you will think you were great at the end of the night. Arrogance is confidence on steroids. Synonyms of arrogance are assuming (ass), bragger, conceited, egotistical, cocky. Just be you. Not the over the top version of you. Don’t tell her how great you are. Be the best you can be, so she can decide that you are the best guy ever.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Always Right</span><br />Be open minded and not stubborn. Your conversations will go much smoother. You don’t have to change your position on the topic, but take time to listen and consider the other side. It is really frustrating when a person always has to be right or is extremely (or even mildly) stubborn. You may want to check with your family and friends on this one. If you are one of those guys, chances are you won’t know it because you are, of course, always right.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Self-Centered</span><br />While it is good to share information about yourself, it is also good to ask questions. Try to listen and respond with a question, instead of your own story. Also when planning dates, ask what she would like to do, instead of only considering what you like. Make an effort to do things you both like and consider each other. Everything is not about you, what you like, what you want, when you want, etc. It’s great that you know what you desire, just don’t be overbearing and inconsiderate.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Never at Fault</span><br />Mature men take responsibility for their actions. If you make a mistake or hurt her feelings, just apologize. You may feel weaker, but it actually makes you look stronger. Apologizing doesn’t always mean that you are wrong, it can simply mean that you realize your action played a part in a misunderstanding.<br /><br />These dating tips for men serve as a guide to help draw attention to some major turn-offs for women. Some of these dating tips for men may come easy for you, while a couple may have stood out as hard habits to break. Now that you know, take some time to think about how you can minimize these turn-offs and focus on your positive qualities.<br /><br />-JePP-<br />MoIS, MY.Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-5384773615430355962008-07-16T13:23:00.001+08:002008-07-16T13:25:36.497+08:00Menjaga HatiMasih tertinggal bayanganmu<br />Yang telah membekas di relung hatiku<br />Hujan tanpa henti seolah bertanda<br />Cinta tak disini lagi kau telah berpaling<br /><br />Biarkan aku menjaga perasaan ini<br />Menjaga segenap cinta yang telah kau beri<br />Engkau pergi aku takkan pergi<br /><br />Kau menjauh aku takkan jauh<br />Sebenarnya diriku masih mengharapkanmu<br /><br />Masih adakah cahaya rindumu<br />Yang dulu selalu cerminkan hatimu<br />Aku takkan bisa menghapus dirimu<br />Meskipun kulihat kau kini diseberang sana<br /><br />Andai akhirnya kau tak juga kembali<br />Aku tetap sendiri menjaga hati<br />Sejujurnya aku masih mengharapkanmu<br /><br />-JePP-<br />MoIS, MYJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-23974741873606510712008-07-15T10:43:00.002+08:002008-07-15T10:44:07.766+08:00Lelaki SejatiAku bertanya pada Ibuku, bagaimanakah lelaki sejati itu ?<br /><br />Ibuku menjawab, Nak...<br /><br />Laki-laki Sejati bukanlah dilihat dari bahunya yang<br />kekar, tetapi dari kasih sayangnya pada orang<br />disekitarnya....<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari suaranya yang<br />lantang, tetapi dari kelembutannya mengatakan<br />kebenaran.....<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari jumlah<br />sahabat di sekitarnya, tetapi dari sikap<br />bersahabatnya pada generasi muda bangsa...<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari bagaimana dia<br />di hormati ditempat bekerja, tetapi bagaimana dia<br />dihormati didalam rumah...<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari kerasnya<br />pukulan, tetapi dari sikap bijaknya memahami<br />persoalan...<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari dadanya yang<br />bidang, tetapi dari hati yang ada dibalik itu...<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari banyaknya<br />wanita yang memuja, tetapi komitmennya terhadap<br />wanita yang dicintainya...<br /><br />Laki-laki sejati bukanlah dilihat dari jumlah tanggungjawab<br />yang dibebankan, tetapi dari tabahnya dia menghadapi<br />lika-liku kehidupan...<br /><br />Laki-laki Sejati bukanlah dilihat dari rajinnya<br />membaca kitab suci, tetapi dari konsistennya dia<br />menjalankan apa yang ia baca..<br /><br />-JePP-<br />MoIS, MYJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-90161787562063275412008-06-23T00:50:00.002+08:002008-06-23T00:58:50.921+08:00SerenityIt is said that, 'You can't change the world but you can always change yourself.' So, if you and I start to change, then we have already begun changing the world. Just when you think things can't get any worse, they do. I've learned that life is like hour glass sand. Sooner or later, everything hits rock bottom, but all you have to do is be patience and wait for something to turn everything back around. I've also learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up; it simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up, it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be.<br /><br />Love is the greatest feeling we will ever have, yet it is also one of the greatest sorrows. There is so much suffering, but then there are times when the crying, pain, and heartache is worth it. Those moments are perfect, they are right. Those moments make all the suffering worth while. It's those moments we should live for. Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fail in order to know, Sometimes our vision clears only after our eyes are washed away with tears and sometimes our trusting hand that guides us through life won't always be there, and that's the time when you really grow up and face life for the first time. But that hand will always be close by.<br /><br />Everything in life is temporary, because everything changes. That's why it takes great courage to love, knowing it might end anytime but having the faith it will last forever. Just keep the faith and let love lead the way. Everything will work out right if you let love lead the way. <br /><br />Watching you walk out of my life hasn't made me bitter or cynical about love, but rather, it has shown me that if I wanted so badly to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along. After a while I learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and I learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't mean security, and I begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, and I begin to accept my defeats with my head up and my eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child. <br /><br />I learn to build all my roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans. After a while I learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So, plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And I learn that I really can endure... that I'm really strong, and really do have worth.<br /><br />God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the strength to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.<br /><br />-JePP-<br />My Sweet Room<br />MoIS, MY.Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-19832264059830528202008-06-18T23:00:00.001+08:002008-06-18T23:03:11.218+08:00Love and InsanityWithin the few months of my being hooked-up with a certain text room, one of the many things that I have learned is the parallelism of Love and Insanity. I came to realize that these two words are somewhat synonymous. This is manifested by the countless stories of experiences documented by different individuals there in that website. Love life with a plot a la telenovela, with a complete casting from supporting actors to the usual protagonists and antagonists - peers, parents or classmates to name a few. What do I see? I see insanity in a broad daylight. Love life recycled from one generation to the next. Insanity inherited by yet another group of people in the same environment at a different time. I find it insane considering that our way of life has indeed made a giant leap into what we call the future and yet the same old pains, troubles or problems haunt people's love life.<br />Define Love. Love is this. Love is that. Love is here. Love is there. There isn't a single definition for love. Worst is, one definition conflicts with the other. No, conflict is an understatement, contradict would have been better. In binary, a "1" is never a "0" and vice versa. Treating one as the other is insanity. Love bringing either happiness or sorrow, or sometimes both, is insanity. Does insanity define love? Or, is insanity love, in a negative form?<br />Let us get back to my previous example. That is an analogy illustrating insanity. Now, let's take love. We know that our love will get to nowhere but we take the risk of gambling with love. The result is we get hurt. And that is insanity. Foreseeing darkness ahead but still taking the courage to step into the dark. The result is disaster. In real life, it's like you know that he's married but what the hell! And that is love. Or, you can feel she cares for somebody but still you convince yourself that she loves you, because you love her. And again, that is love. And what about this latest crap? When you love someone you gave that someone the opportunity to hurt you. Isn't that insanity to the max or just plain masochism?<br />Do I speak justly then when I say that those who love are insane? Would you still love? <br />I assume that our answer to both questions is a unanimous "Yes!" with a capital Y and an exclamation point choreographed with a clenched fist and an authoritative facial expression to stress our certainty, unaware that we are already despising the word "logic". And again, that clearly manifests insanity.<br />We are used to saying the phrase "falling in love" to mean "being in love". Isn't it "to fall" connotes a negative meaning? Isn't it insanity then that we allow ourselves to "fall" in love? But wait, others say, "high with love", to mean addicted with love. Just the same, and addiction is even worse. To let our selves get "high" with love is again an act of insanity. To fall is to go down contradicting the word high. With these two contradicting results associated with love, setting love in front of a well-polished mirror, love vividly reflects insanity.<br />But despite this shocking analogy, I would still say, "If to love is to be insane, please, take all my sanity away." It is with pride that I'll shout to the world, "Call me insane because I am in love!"<br /><br /><br />"There is a time to let things happen, and a time to make things happen"<br /><br />-JePP-<br />MoIS, MY.<br />11.02pmJepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4817519740728294867.post-21059257855528608762008-06-12T23:16:00.002+08:002008-06-12T23:25:32.424+08:00PURSUIT YOUR DREAMS!When you set out to make your dreams come true, does something stop you? Are you energized, motivated, enthusiastic, pleased and inspired right now? If not, don't settle, go for your dreams!<br />We may think we are committed to our goals and dreams but if they are not where we want them to be it's because we are giving up, somewhere along the line. We may justify giving up by saying it's too hard or I don't like aspects of it. Or that people or circumstances are in the way, but the truth is... when we give in, we are taking the easy and temporarily convenient way out.<br />There's a huge price to pay for not going for our dreams. The price is our life and our dreams fulfilled! Not to mention our happiness, our relationships, our vitality and our creativity. Deep down inside we know what we love to do. There are a hundred ways from Sunday to express that into the world. So lets get with the program of our lives and create it! Here's a few pointers on how to make that happen.<br />Know what you love to do... and start doing it right now! Your mind and thoughts have to be in alignment with the passion of your heart. This will pre-dispose you to right action and catapult you into your success! Start your business, grow your business, get a new job, start that book, paint the picture, just get out there and express yourself passionately, and when you do, watch out! That's when life lights up, gets exciting and full of energy and vitality!<br />Once you've taken action you must be persistent! This is where most of us fall off track, when things get a little difficult, or unclear or not so secure we lay down the dream, fold on our truth and buckle under the illusions of the outside world. We either think it's going to be dreamy like Hollywood or that it's unobtainable like speaking to people all over the world at any time! (hello the Internet)<br />Know this... Nobody can impact you unless you let them. Nothing can impact you unless you let it. Therefore nobody and nothing has any power over you. You have power over you...that's it! To think anything else is an excuse, an illusion, or a justification to play small in the matter of your goals and dreams. You are powerful beyond words and you have the energy, insight and vision to know exactly how to navigate through your life so that it works for you!<br />You will have hardships, you will have challenges and you will have setbacks. You would have all of that even if you didn't pursue the dream - even more so! So there's challenges... So what! It's part of life! After all this is the "learning planet" and all those setbacks become our greatest teachers. If you could just step back and look at it like a great big game of hockey or a game of tennis - we could simply say, "ok what's my next move?" Turn adversity into opportunity and you've got a winning play for any successful outcome!<br />There will be moments when you will want to quit. Don't ever quit! Going back to your old life may look more attractive in the midst of challenges but the reality of that is, you can never go back to the way it was. You are on the learning planet remember. If you weren't meant to be learning and growing and building right here...you would be on the "been there got the T-shirt planet"! Isn't it inspiring to know that we all get the privilege of learning on this planet and when we do, it's interesting, exciting and inspiring! Know that the harder you work, the luckier you will get. What ever you focus on expands. The more you focus on what you want, the more of what you want, will show up. Stop focusing on what isn't and keep your eye on what's possible. Focus on the good, focus on the abundance, focus on being grateful, focus on your vision and goals!<br />World leader in success principles, Jack Canfield says this, "Adversity and discouragement is inevitable. No matter how well you plan and how well you execute your plan, you are bound to meet with disappointments, adversity and failure along the way to your ultimate triumph. Sometimes, you'll encounter what seem like overwhelming odds. And sometimes, the Universe will test your commitment to the goal you're pursuing. The going may be hard, and may require you to refuse to give up while you learn new lessons, develop new parts of yourself, and make difficult decisions. And, adversity is what gives you the opportunity to develop your inner resources of character and courage. Adversity is a great teacher. It will test you and make you stronger. But you have to hang in there and not give up!" More than 4000 years ago in China, Confucius wrote: "Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall."<br />This is the journey of the pursuit of your dreams. Jump over obstacles, move through fears and catapult into action and right results. Be a designer of solutions. Focus on the extraordinary and what has not been possible - up until you came along!<br />You are a very very powerful human being. And as I see you as this, so shall you be. Everyone around you is powerful, see them as this, and so shall they be! The way you observe your world, creates your world. That's just how powerful we are as human beings! Now that's amazing! <br /><br /><br />-JePP-<br />MoIS, MY.Jepphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12201966913664154314noreply@blogger.com1