Monday, June 22, 2009

Learn to LOVE again

When you love someone and the relationship ends it hurts. And if a relationship ends suddenly, or if you were betrayed in some way, it can seem as if you'll never be able to love again.

Too much of a risk?

People often say that learning to trust again is getting over the feeling that if you get too close then love will be snatched away again.

To love we have to give of ourselves and that can feel like taking a big risk.

But not loving means a life without intimacy so which is the bigger risk?

You can love again

You can love again and the beauty of love is that you love people in different ways and you love different things about them.

It's a wonderful feeling when you realize you've fallen in love again and memories of the old love can still be special but they no longer prevent you from finding new happiness.

Your special gift

When you love someone you give them a special gift. What people choose to do with your gift is down to them. Part of a new relationship is working out how worthy your new partner is to receive your 'special gift'. Of course this means relaxing and allowing the time for the relationship to progress and develop.

-JePP-
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2 comments:

Unknown said...

Iyo la tu......lot of lot of experience ke?

Jepp said...

shima ade la skit2.. :P